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Hook up or date your ex???:cool:
RiverDave
09-19-2007, 09:48 PM
Hook up or date your ex???:cool:
Kinda depends on the "ex" but a blanket answer? I don't think a true buddy would hook up with your X.
RD
Tom Brown
09-19-2007, 09:49 PM
Let? :confused:
Rexone
09-20-2007, 05:59 AM
Let? :confused:
It's an ownership thing Tom. C'mon join the 21st century. Gosh. :rolleyes:
Devilman
09-20-2007, 06:45 AM
Hook up or date your ex???:cool:
I've been on both sides of that fence.....
Got interested in a chick a friend of mine had dated in the past. They had been apart for some time, but I still mentioned it to him before I got involved with her. Gave him the scoop & told him if he had a problem with it, I'd steer clear of her. He said he didn't mind, but to "be careful"(:eek:), so I hooked up with her. About 7, maybe 8 months later, I came to realize that the most pleasant thought that came to mind when she was with me was how much nicer it would be if I could have chopped her fucking head off & stuck it in a bowling bag. Her impressive rack had completely disabled my ability to heed his advice & it turned out my friend was dead on about her. :D
Later, down the road a couple years after dumping a psycho-chick I had been with for awhile, a friend approached me asking the same question. He was interested in one of me ex's & would I have a problem with it if he started seeing her. The circle was complete, it was now my turn to pass on the words that were spoken to me in the past: "Sure, it won't bother me any. Just watch your ass & keep an eye on anything you consider valuble. She'll be fine for about the first 6 months, but the situation will go to hell on a greasy pole shortly after that." He came to realize that I was right, & he ended up getting rid of her. :D
These days, the women in question are all gone & we're all still friends..... :beer Would I do it again, though? No........ :)
knuckle head
09-20-2007, 09:57 AM
Kinda depends on the "ex" but a blanket answer? I don't think a true buddy would hook up with your X.
RD
I would agree with this statement. I think it would depend on how long she has been your "X". Hell I tried to hook RB up with my X-Wife:rolleyes:
Aint no thing but a chicken wing!
All's fair in rock & roll :beer
Ratso
09-20-2007, 10:23 AM
I don't see a problem with it. I won't put boundaries on someone just because they or I was a stepping stone to get to somewhere else. I had a friend of mine came up to me one night at a bar... said my "girl" was getting friendly with him. I said "Take her home then." He said he couldn't do that. I told him "Hell, I'll pay for the drinks to get her smashed so you can!"
He was supposed to go to eat breakfast with us the next day, so I called over to her place and asked "Is Paul there?" She replied "Yes, but he is kind of busy right now." I told her "That's awesome!" She asked what was so awesome... I said "Hell, you're an official club member now!" You know, I've been seeing this chick off and on since 2001... she hooks up with her "serious" relationships that last 6 months at a time, give or take a few months, and I always know when she's broke up... She's gotta have me on speed dial or something. That's pretty much all I am to her right now, a stepping stone... but then I wouldn't have it any other way.
Exes are exes... cut em loose. I've had friends get butt hurt over it, but I'm drilling whatever I want to drill. Just because you stick your dick in something, it doesn't give you exclusive rights to cock block your friends from hittin' it. I will gladly hook an ex of mine up with a friend. Hell, I'll even furnish them a bedroom at my place to hit it.
I'll never understand how people will throw away a friendship over a piece of ass, because that's all it is. Hit that shit and move on or pass it on...
Tell em Rat......You dont really lose the girl......Just your turn......:D
Ratso
09-20-2007, 10:28 AM
Tell em Rat......You dont really lose the girl......Just your turn......:D
Amen Brother...;)
I don't see a problem with it. I won't put boundaries on someone just because they or I was a stepping stone to get to somewhere else. I had a friend of mine came up to me one night at a bar... said my "girl" was getting friendly with him. I said "Take her home then." He said he couldn't do that. I told him "Hell, I'll pay for the drinks to get her smashed so you can!"
He was supposed to go to eat breakfast with us the next day, so I called over to her place and asked "Is Paul there?" She replied "Yes, but he is kind of busy right now." I told her "That's awesome!" She asked what was so awesome... I said "Hell, you're an official club member now!" You know, I've been seeing this chick off and on since 2001... she hooks up with her "serious" relationships that last 6 months at a time, give or take a few months, and I always know when she's broke up... She's gotta have me on speed dial or something. That's pretty much all I am to her right now, a stepping stone... but then I wouldn't have it any other way.
Exes are exes... cut em loose. I've had friends get butt hurt over it, but I'm drilling whatever I want to drill. Just because you stick your dick in something, it doesn't give you exclusive rights to cock block your friends from hittin' it. I will gladly hook an ex of mine up with a friend. Hell, I'll even furnish them a bedroom at my place to hit it.
I'll never understand how people will throw away a friendship over a piece of ass, because that's all it is. Hit that shit and move on or pass it on...Amen brother, Amen
yopengo
09-20-2007, 10:56 AM
Only if it was Brown or JBB. :hmm
I've been on both sides of that fence.....
Got interested in a chick a friend of mine had dated in the past. They had been apart for some time, but I still mentioned it to him before I got involved with her. Gave him the scoop & told him if he had a problem with it, I'd steer clear of her. He said he didn't mind, but to "be careful"(:eek:), so I hooked up with her. About 7, maybe 8 months later, I came to realize that the most pleasant thought that came to mind when she was with me was how much nicer it would be if I could have chopped her fucking head off & stuck it in a bowling bag. Her impressive rack had completely disabled my ability to heed his advice & it turned out my friend was dead on about her. :D
Later, down the road a couple years after dumping a psycho-chick I had been with for awhile, a friend approached me asking the same question. He was interested in one of me ex's & would I have a problem with it if he started seeing her. The circle was complete, it was now my turn to pass on the words that were spoken to me in the past: "Sure, it won't bother me any. Just watch your ass & keep an eye on anything you consider valuble. She'll be fine for about the first 6 months, but the situation will go to hell on a greasy pole shortly after that." He came to realize that I was right, & he ended up getting rid of her. :D
These days, the women in question are all gone & we're all still friends..... :beer Would I do it again, though? No........ :)
So now you guys are all "Peters in Law" eh:beer
Devilman
09-20-2007, 11:42 AM
So now you guys are all "Peters in Law" eh:beer
Umm, I never thought about it like that. LOL :D
RitcheyRch
09-20-2007, 12:36 PM
I think friends should stay away from your ex's
Ratso
09-20-2007, 01:41 PM
I think friends should stay away from your ex's
What if it's your ex... and you don't give a fuck?:hmm
River Lynchmob
09-20-2007, 04:51 PM
Only if it was you Nord ;-)
RitcheyRch
09-20-2007, 06:00 PM
Might be awkard hanging out with him and her. On another note, you can always say "Fuck her, I did"
What if it's your ex... and you don't give a fuck?:hmm
Ratso
09-20-2007, 06:58 PM
Might be awkard hanging out with him and her. On another note, you can always say "Fuck her, I did"
...and then compare notes.:skull
Photo Chick
09-20-2007, 07:03 PM
It is an unwritten law between girls...never, ever date the ex of a friend!!!!
MissB
09-20-2007, 07:44 PM
somehow:hmm, I ended up dating my ex-hubby's friend. Not a good idea:mad:
It made my ex-husband soo mad. I realized I was WRONG. I really have no idea why I did it, but it ended quickly and to this day my ex will still not talk to him. I did however set a girl I knew up with this guy I had been dating but was now trying to get rid of. I told her my only request is that you do not become one of those "you can't talk to her" jealous type of girls. Well she did. So lessons learned on both sides....
jordy
09-20-2007, 07:45 PM
If they're not good enough for me, they're not good enough for my friends!!! :fsakes:point:lamo
Topless
09-20-2007, 08:20 PM
I had a friend (or so I thought) do this to me and call to tell me about it, then call at least once a mont to tell me how good the sex was. I have her number is any of you need to get laid.
RitcheyRch
09-20-2007, 09:12 PM
Might be fun for a short time but not in the long run. :D
...and then compare notes.:skull
Ratso
09-21-2007, 09:10 AM
It is an unwritten law between girls...never, ever date the ex of a friend!!!!
Really?:skull
jordy
09-21-2007, 09:16 AM
Really?:skull
:lamo
It is an unwritten law between girls...never, ever date the ex of a friend!!!!Oh that's rich! http://img297.imageshack.us/img297/2528/lmfaoka3.gif (http://imageshack.us)
Eazykiller
09-25-2007, 09:40 PM
heck,:beer i share
Waterjunky
09-25-2007, 10:04 PM
heck,:beer i share
Quality!!!!!
If it is actually over and done with, I have cut the strings and there is little or no baggage. At that point I will mention the problems and let them choose. If it works great, If it doesn't, I warned you.....
No baggage, no regrets, no problems.
Just the way I am.
Riverbound
09-26-2007, 05:16 AM
I would agree with this statement. I think it would depend on how long she has been your "X". Hell I tried to hook RB up with my X-Wife:rolleyes:
Hey... I was just being a friend and willing to jump on the grenade for you :swear
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DeltaSigBoater
09-26-2007, 08:55 AM
Hey... I was just being a friend and willing to jump on the grenade for you :swear
Good 'ol RB... taking one for the team :beer
H4Poohbah
09-26-2007, 09:02 AM
If they are friends then there is a 90% chance the two dudes see things on a similiar level. You know, hang out with the same people, have the same hobbies, etc... So what makes dude B think that the outcome will be any different than it was when chick was with dude A. She either tired of his lifestyle which will surely mean she will tire of the new dudes shit. Or she is a bitch and dude A already eliminated her from the pool.
Chicks always think they can change the guy. She will go through the whole group of friends until she finds one that will throw everything out the window and in the toilet for her.
Guys though, it makes no sense to try out a retread, you've already seen the original model fail. What makes you think its going to be any different the second time around?
Forensic
Very wise Mr. Miyagi, and I really must concur; would also appreciate a heads up from my Bro. In addition they're Exes for a reason, don't know I'd want my Bros facing that kind of exiquisite torture. Bros b4 Hos always.
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