Sorry to hear all this. Never been through it, but I've seen some of the inmates with experience say that this is the wrong thing to do. Don't leave the house was the advice they gave. I'm sure they'll be along shortly to share.
So since I can't seem to get the withholding dialed in, can I claim exempt and then just send in quarterlies of an appropriate amount? Ever since they fucked with the W4 in 2020, I can't get it right.
Trust me, I thought about it. I've had the state seize my bank accounts once already, and that was when I didn't owe them any money. I'm not gonna fuck around over a couple hundred bucks.