Pretty rough situation but I will tell you don't leave the house, try and figure out a plan if possible without lawyers if possible, but bottom line, the more she has kids, the more you will pay, try to get 50/50.
Wish I had pics of my old marine stadium boat, I would show you what rust through looks like, one cross bar just fell out basically. I don't see anything in pics I would be too worried about, for the price of a new trailer i would run it, maybe do the couple really bad pieces.
For some sun and to relax maybe horny corner Alamitos harbor, real beach setting seal beach pier, beach with people watching Huntington beach pier. We hit Bolsa often, ok beach with some bands playing if its the weekend.
It will be fine; you can hit ever bar and stop up to sundance, even big bend, spot right below foxes will get you, so don't mind the dirty looks you get when you run that beast on the cali side for a few minutes to miss rock bar, I usually wait until no one is coming down river.
So many of these freaks out there, see where fieldman said sheen boned him in between 2 trailers in a parking lot, never world of guessed that one. must be the ole tigers blood.
I've had a few pairs of Wiley X , which are curved and also safety glasses, I've had them in a progressive lens, you get use to them, dog just chewed up my last pair.