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Boat 405

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With my wife as she goes through labor with our son on the way. Feeling just about as helpless as I’ve ever felt. During contractions I can’t even touch her without her going ballistic. So I coach and talk her through them. What else do I do??? This is nuts, 5 hrs in.
 

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Hold on tight! There’s nothing you can do right at this point. Hopefully it goes quickly for both of you. Good luck and congrats. I delivered both my girls. I didn’t want to be in arms reach of my wife!
Thanks man. This is by far the most humbling experience in my life.
 

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Thanks man. This is by far the most humbling experience in my life.
Just wait. You’ve got a roller coaster ahead of you. I wouldn’t trade it for anything. Keep the updates coming. Does she have any pain management going?
 

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With my wife as she goes through labor with our son on the way. Feeling just about as helpless as I’ve ever felt. During contractions I can’t even touch her without her going ballistic. So I coach and talk her through them. What else do I do??? This is nuts, 5 hrs in.

Basically just be calm, and the calmer you are the better off all three of you will be. Good luck and congrats early on!

RD
 

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My wife did the first two naturally...yes, she could kick my ass:) Yes sir, you're about as useless as tits on a nun. Your job is to be whatever boss lady needs you to be. All of us are balls out, in charge types, right up until this point. When the first kid comes, suddenly it's time to shift gears. If you're there with your wife, you're already on the right track. Now get off the phone! You have more important things to focus on...and if your wife sees, you may be in the ER having the phone removed from a not so pleasant place:eek:
 

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Your emotions are going to get the best of you . The good emotions let them out be proud as you will be , this is your families moment ! This is one of those great chapters in your life. Comgrats
 

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Keep calm as she rips the skin off your hands during contractions! :D
 

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Right on! Huge congratulations! Brings back some great memories...once she stops screaming!! Lol. Prayers to all of you!!
 

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With my wife as she goes through labor with our son on the way. Feeling just about as helpless as I’ve ever felt. During contractions I can’t even touch her without her going ballistic. So I coach and talk her through them. What else do I do??? This is nuts, 5 hrs in.
Did she get the drugs yet? If not demand them now
 

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Good luck bud! Ask for some Nubain to take the edge off.
 

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feed her ice chips and try to keep her calm.. Good times ahead.
 

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Congrats Dad!!

Most helpless feelings of my life were watching my 3 born. [emoji23]
 

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I sat there and ate fried chicken with my first born. Wife was not happy!

Maybe you will have different results.

Give it a run!
 

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With my wife as she goes through labor with our son on the way. Feeling just about as helpless as I’ve ever felt. During contractions I can’t even touch her without her going ballistic. So I coach and talk her through them. What else do I do??? This is nuts, 5 hrs in.
Old I bet you are longing for the good old days when the hub was not allowed in labor and delivery.
 

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Congrats! Hopefully you got to hold the baby by now. Pretty amazing that first time
 

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Good job Pops! Hope mom and baby get some rest...and you get some coffee:D Like pointed out, new life changes ahead. They aren't bad, just different. Now is a good time to find out from your parents what type of babies you guys were...may give you some insight as to what's to come.

Congrats!:)
Congrats! Hopefully you got to hold the baby by now. Pretty amazing that first time
I was scared as hell! Being gentle was not in my normal routine...they're so small!
 

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All went perfect! 8 lbs 2 oz. 20.5”. No drugs all natural. Mom is awesome! Mom and son are doing great!
AWESOME! now go take a nap. You'll need as much rest as you can get. ;)
Congrats sir. :)
 

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AWESOME! now go take a nap. You'll need as much rest as you can get. ;)
Congrats sir. :)

TRUTH!!

Being in the hospital was the hardest part. Exhausted before he was delivered, exhausted after he was delivered. Ours is 9 months. Talking about number two. The thought of the 4 days in the hospital is enough to say no hahaha
 

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Congrats.
Hopefully you got a private room and can stay for the 3 full days allowed and rest as much as possible!
Wife and I stayed at the hospital as long as we could, did not want to return to grandparents that were waiting at the house.
 

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Congratulations!!! You made it!!! Wow, no medicine with a baby that size. Your wife is a trooper.

Get as much rest as you can becuase the fun is going to begin!!!!
 

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Good job Pops! Hope mom and baby get some rest...and you get some coffee:D Like pointed out, new life changes ahead. They aren't bad, just different. Now is a good time to find out from your parents what type of babies you guys were...may give you some insight as to what's to come.

Congrats!:)

I was scared as hell! Being gentle was not in my normal routine...they're so small!

It was that head/neck that scared me.

They are like rubber and you can shape their heads. Just like putty...lol
 

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Good to hear!!! Congradulations buddy! Let the good times roll!
 
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