coolchange
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What have you done to eliminate the toxic elements of your life?
This past year I unintentionally went on a quest to eliminate toxic people and things from my life.
it started when I realized I'm just not going to put up with bulshit from other people anymore.
It started with a phone call to my family member about a spouse with aggravated texts to my wife. Told them I wasn't tolerating any more negativity. If they didn't want to be a positive, they wouldn't be anything. Then some more texts from in-laws regarding the situation they didn't like, but we're doing nothing to help. Sent them a text back and chopped them off at the knees.
That's when I realized I was on a mission!
I never had much issue with anxiety and stress. I now take care of my 92 year-old father. My wife quit her job to do this. Now she deals with her father also who is dealing with a debilitating disease.
She also had a meltdown with her family regards to her father and the impending issues of family trust.
This also means virtually no vacation time, or stress relief, due to responsibilities.
My New year's resolution, of which I don't usually participate in, is to look back on people and things, and evaluate if they bring positivity into my life.
This past year I unintentionally went on a quest to eliminate toxic people and things from my life.
it started when I realized I'm just not going to put up with bulshit from other people anymore.
It started with a phone call to my family member about a spouse with aggravated texts to my wife. Told them I wasn't tolerating any more negativity. If they didn't want to be a positive, they wouldn't be anything. Then some more texts from in-laws regarding the situation they didn't like, but we're doing nothing to help. Sent them a text back and chopped them off at the knees.
That's when I realized I was on a mission!
I never had much issue with anxiety and stress. I now take care of my 92 year-old father. My wife quit her job to do this. Now she deals with her father also who is dealing with a debilitating disease.
She also had a meltdown with her family regards to her father and the impending issues of family trust.
This also means virtually no vacation time, or stress relief, due to responsibilities.
My New year's resolution, of which I don't usually participate in, is to look back on people and things, and evaluate if they bring positivity into my life.