coolchange
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So I got that phone call today.
Saw a friend of mine a few weeks ago and commented he looked like crap. Said anxiety was getting to him. Working 7 days taking care of other people. He saw my wife a few weeks ago and she had to settle him down. My wife commented Saturday that she hadn’t heard from Dave in a couple of weeks and that’s not like him.
He had dinner with another friend last week that commented he looks sick and he would take him to the hospital. Insisted but he refused.
I know it was because he had patients to see.
Dave said he always felt bad because a friend passed and he didn’t force him to seek help. He said it haunted him.
This makes several now that wouldn’t accept help or advise from friends.
Dave passed in his sleep Saturday alone.
All the “God damn it I should haves....”
Make them and don’t take no for an answer. I know you can’t help someone that won’t take it and I don’t feel guilty but God Damn it..
Saw a friend of mine a few weeks ago and commented he looked like crap. Said anxiety was getting to him. Working 7 days taking care of other people. He saw my wife a few weeks ago and she had to settle him down. My wife commented Saturday that she hadn’t heard from Dave in a couple of weeks and that’s not like him.
He had dinner with another friend last week that commented he looks sick and he would take him to the hospital. Insisted but he refused.
I know it was because he had patients to see.
Dave said he always felt bad because a friend passed and he didn’t force him to seek help. He said it haunted him.
This makes several now that wouldn’t accept help or advise from friends.
Dave passed in his sleep Saturday alone.
All the “God damn it I should haves....”
Make them and don’t take no for an answer. I know you can’t help someone that won’t take it and I don’t feel guilty but God Damn it..