endobear
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Wife was at a work dinner last night and was speaking with a vendor she's been working with on and off for 16 years. It came up how happy he was that she was working with them again. It came up that she thought his group didn't like her. He then proceeded to tell her that they had all thought she was sleeping with her boss (district manager for a large bank) 15 years ago.
Wife was floored and this dude was back peddling like crazy. He called out the lady who told him right at dinner. My wife has known this lady for 16 years and as of 4 years ago is her direct report and very close friend. Or so she thought.
Wife's super embarrassed, hurt and livid.
It's been a tough 16 years with the bank and she's been passed up for numerous promotions, has dealt with many bitchy women coworkers and feels this rumor tainted her career .
She's ready to quit . Almost jumped on a plane last night. I told her to stick out the trip and see what her boss has to say for herself.
Does she quit? Ask for a transfer? Or just accept her bosses apology and accept it was something that happened over a decade ago and move on.
Wife was floored and this dude was back peddling like crazy. He called out the lady who told him right at dinner. My wife has known this lady for 16 years and as of 4 years ago is her direct report and very close friend. Or so she thought.
Wife's super embarrassed, hurt and livid.
It's been a tough 16 years with the bank and she's been passed up for numerous promotions, has dealt with many bitchy women coworkers and feels this rumor tainted her career .
She's ready to quit . Almost jumped on a plane last night. I told her to stick out the trip and see what her boss has to say for herself.
Does she quit? Ask for a transfer? Or just accept her bosses apology and accept it was something that happened over a decade ago and move on.