You would think it would be mandatory at a poker run, actually should have them on all the time in a high performance boat, but Im not going to beat that horse here. It may have been the case here where she was only knocked out, without a jacket on its not a good outcome.They were wearing jackets, right?
I just read Dales post on OSO. They did not have their jackets on, as I think they were following everyone back home and maybe were relaxed and didn't think they needed them. We have all been there. Looks like a 40-50' yacht, trawler, whatever it was, came by and created a huge wake, that, along with some other confused water and a somewhat new boat for the captain, tragedy strikes as I assume the boat stuffed.You would think it would be mandatory at a poker run, actually should have them on all the time in a high performance boat, but Im not going to beat that horse here. It may have been the case here where she was only knocked out, without a jacket on its not a good outcome.
Sad deal, and I have seen some of the massive boats on Delta, nothing even comes close on Havasu. And yes, we have all been there, and as much as I swear by jackets since I have crashed a few boats racing, Im just like everyone else and dont wear them all the time.I just read Dales post on OSO. They did not have their jackets on, as I think they were following everyone back home and maybe were relaxed and didn't think they needed them. We have all been there. Looks like a 40-50' yacht, trawler, whatever it was, came by and created a huge wake, that, along with some other confused water and a somewhat new boat for the captain, tragedy strikes as I assume the boat stuffed.
.God speed to the lady, this is such a tragedy.
Sad deal, and I have seen some of the massive boats on Delta, nothing even comes close on Havasu. And yes, we have all been there, and as much as I swear by jackets since I have crashed a few boats racing, Im just like everyone else and dont wear them all the time.
Glad to hear the lady has only a bump on the head. Hoping it does not create any permanent damage.
Take this to another thread...
Typical, keyboard export who does nothing but make degrading comments because he read it on the internet. You actually saw the boat when it was in the toolies or you saw a photo of the boat afterwards?
People like yourself always bring down every thread with your know it all BS.
Exactly! Well said.
@shintoo
Can you clean this up please. We don’t need any drama in this thread.
@LargeOrangeFont if you can get to it first.
I understand that there will be discussions surrounding the cause of the accident. I don't see a place for pissing matches surrounding the cause of an unrelated accident that was a decade ago.
I think everyone was doing pretty well up until the FnG popped in. The PSA’s on vests were legit. Nothing preachy but some solid experienced boater info. Got me thinking anyway..
aweful outcome to what should have been a great delta boating day.......
In response to anyone wondering about delta boating. yes, there's cruisers and yachts on the delta everywhere...... their rollers and wakes makes a rollbar boat's wake
look like a joke.....
you need to proceed with caution if there's cruisers around, since you can literally "drop" off a roller by maybe 6-8 feet down... I did it, just once. scared the crap outta
me and my crew that day. I'm surprized the hull didn't crack landing flat like that......... we hurt afterward,,,
I couldn't imagine powering-through a 6 foot roller at 50MPH......
--Sherpa
aweful outcome to what should have been a great delta boating day.......
In response to anyone wondering about delta boating. yes, there's cruisers and yachts on the delta everywhere...... their rollers and wakes makes a rollbar boat's wake
look like a joke.....
you need to proceed with caution if there's cruisers around, since you can literally "drop" off a roller by maybe 6-8 feet down... I did it, just once. scared the crap outta
me and my crew that day. I'm surprized the hull didn't crack landing flat like that......... we hurt afterward,,,
I couldn't imagine powering-through a 6 foot roller at 50MPH......
--Sherpa
Sorry you had to witness any of this tragedy.Well it's been a little over three days since we rolled up on the incident scene.... I have to tell you, I can't get it off my mind.
I did not personally know Stephan or Nancy but this has shook me to the core. I've never felt so helpless in my life, seeing the aftermath of a horrific accident is one thing but having to leave before it got dark knowing a beautiful young woman and mother was still in the water has been life changing . Eventually this will fade in our memories but this one will take awhile, I literally shed tears today and I hope the best for everyone touched by this.
RIP Nancy.
This is a sport that many of us take for granted, me being one of them. In times like this we all should look in the mirror and ask how can I be a better captain. To see some of the remarks makes me want to throw up, PLEASE for the love of our sport... show some respect !!
Unfortunately I’ve been in the same situation and it sucks. I had to search for 8 days for my friends. It killed performance boating for me and why I’m such a proponent of life vests.Well it's been a little over three days since we rolled up on the incident scene.... I have to tell you, I can't get it off my mind.
I did not personally know Stephan or Nancy but this has shook me to the core. I've never felt so helpless in my life, seeing the aftermath of a horrific accident is one thing but having to leave before it got dark knowing a beautiful young woman and mother was still in the water has been life changing . Eventually this will fade in our memories but this one will take awhile, I literally shed tears today and I hope the best for everyone touched by this.
RIP Nancy.
This is a sport that many of us take for granted, me being one of them. In times like this we all should look in the mirror and ask how can I be a better captain. To see some of the remarks makes me want to throw up, PLEASE for the love of our sport... show some respect !!
Yeah.... hard to unseeSorry you had to witness any of this tragedy.
Im having a tough time and I didn't know them.... I couldn't even imagine if it where close friend or God forbid, familyUnfortunately I’ve been in the same situation and it sucks. I had to search for 8 days for my friends. It killed performance boating for me and why I’m such a proponent of life vests.
Sir, I don't know you, or any of the involved. I've been through some things though...Yeah.... hard to unsee
Very well put. Was in an accident as well in the sand with a death speaking about is the best thing you can do. Also doing what you can do to not let it happen with you and taking the precautions maybe he didn't take. But was told by sons father pro motocross guy don't let it stop you from doing what you loveIt won't fade, 20 years from now it will still be clear as day like it happened an hour ago. I have 3 calls that I went on that are still clear as day. 1 was my first fatal car accident the dress she was wearing the smell in the air (rosemary BTW). 2 was me pulling up on scene 1st on scene and seeing a man kneeling in the driveway soaking wet with a Hawaiian shirt on and a lost look on his face, there was a wall around the front yard so I couldn't see what was on the ground in front of him but I knew, my trainee and I got that 14mo boy back. 3 is my nightmare, presidents day 2001 PCH 1st call of the day 2nd ambulance in triple fatal all 3 kids, the girl I worked really hard on was wearing a yellow tank top and stone washed jeans.
If you need to talk to someone do it, seeing shit like that is not for everybody, don't bottle it up and don't tough it out, you are NOT a candy ass because you need to talk, first responders have full on group therapy sessions for this.
ExactlyVery well put. Was in an accident as well in the sand with a death speaking about is the best thing you can do. Also doing what you can do to not let it happen with you and taking the precautions maybe he didn't take. But was told by sons father pro motocross guy don't let it stop you from doing what you love
I'm sorry to hear this Jeff. Sorry you and the Mrs. Has see that.Im having a tough time and I didn't know them.... I couldn't even imagine if it where close friend or God forbid, family [emoji25]
Sir, I don't know you, or any of the involved. I've been through some things though...
What you saw will not fade from memory. There is both good and bad to that. It means anything you learned will never be forgotten, but also things in your memory will sneak up on you at times.
It won't fade from memory, but the memory itself will become easier on you.
In a day and age where some people choose to take pictures or videos, some still step up to try and help. Regardless of odds, and sometimes even skills, efforts are made to help, not document.
Doing what's right, is rarely easy. It often takes much more of a toll than time or physical effort. It sets people apart.
It won't fade, 20 years from now it will still be clear as day like it happened an hour ago. I have 3 calls that I went on that are still clear as day. 1 was my first fatal car accident the dress she was wearing the smell in the air (rosemary BTW). 2 was me pulling up on scene 1st on scene and seeing a man kneeling in the driveway soaking wet with a Hawaiian shirt on and a lost look on his face, there was a wall around the front yard so I couldn't see what was on the ground in front of him but I knew, my trainee and I got that 14mo boy back. 3 is my nightmare, presidents day 2001 PCH 1st call of the day 2nd ambulance in triple fatal all 3 kids, the girl I worked really hard on was wearing a yellow tank top and stone washed jeans.
If you need to talk to someone do it, seeing shit like that is not for everybody, don't bottle it up and don't tough it out, you are NOT a candy ass because you need to talk, first responders have full on group therapy sessions for this.
Honestly, what seems to be the hardest for me is the sudden return of a memory or image. No rhyme nor reason, just like someone switched the channel in my mind.I agree... it will not fade, I pulled out a 16yo boy in front of his family. He was wearing cut off blue jeans, I had not thought about it in awhile. This was 32 years ago.... I remember it like it was yesterday
100%... When I read your post.... the file in my head opened and there was a 16 yo boy with cut off blue jeans, I was twenty at the time.Honestly, what seems to be the hardest for me is the sudden return of a memory or image. No rhyme nor reason, just like someone switched the channel in my mind.
I tell people that every memory I have, decision I've made, both good and bad, and injury I've sustained...makes me who I am. I've always felt when I've been witness to some sort of trauma or tragedy, I was meant to be there for some reason. Maybe in an odd way to pay forward the same help that was afforded me? I don't know how first responder types do it daily. A hand full of times in one's life is more than enough.
We all have crossed paths with something that will change us forever.... Thank God I have a great support group, we all need it.... no matter how tough you think you are.
Honestly, what seems to be the hardest for me is the sudden return of a memory or image. No rhyme nor reason, just like someone switched the channel in my mind.
I tell people that every memory I have, decision I've made, both good and bad, and injury I've sustained...makes me who I am. I've always felt when I've been witness to some sort of trauma or tragedy, I was meant to be there for some reason. Maybe in an odd way to pay forward the same help that was afforded me? I don't know how first responder types do it daily. A hand full of times in one's life is more than enough.
You're posts show wisdom way beyond your years.Honestly, what seems to be the hardest for me is the sudden return of a memory or image. No rhyme nor reason, just like someone switched the channel in my mind.
I tell people that every memory I have, decision I've made, both good and bad, and injury I've sustained...makes me who I am. I've always felt when I've been witness to some sort of trauma or tragedy, I was meant to be there for some reason. Maybe in an odd way to pay forward the same help that was afforded me? I don't know how first responder types do it daily. A hand full of times in one's life is more than enough.
Thank you for the kind words. I am just lucky I have the ability to put my thoughts into words. When it comes to these types of things though, it's taken years for me to kind of understand, but still no logic as to when the roll-a-dex will stop on something I don't want to see.You're posts show wisdom way beyond your years.
I don't dream much. When I do they are very rarely "good". Lots of "re-runs" if you will. After years, it seems as though somehow I've convinced myself some aren't premonitions of the future, just a memory of the past. With some, I used to wake up scared and sweaty, now I may wake up saddened by what occurred. Don't know what's worse in the long run, anxiety or depression?After talking about it today there is a good chance I will relive number 3 in the coming nights (nightmare) but if it makes someone feel like they are not alone in how they feel then it is worth it.