A few years ago I taught my girlfriends 16 year old daughter how to back the trailer. Hands on top of the wheel using the mirrors. She learned it in no time. They had a hugely lifted truck with dark tint all around. Kinda funny to see people's faces when she'd back down like a pro and hop out to unhook the bow.My wife is a beast at it, she actually likes asking guys if they need help. About 10 years ago we went to the mall parking lot on a Sunday and I showed her mirror trick and she practiced backing into parking slots for about an hour. After that she was a pro.