Singleton
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Well, Easter weekend was interesting.
Middle step-son called and said he wants to take a year off from college. He will be finishing his 3rd year in May and due to his degree (Computer Science - emphasis on Video game design), he has 2 years left until graduation.
When ask why - he response was - my classes are too hard and I need a break. Now, I get classes are hard this semester. He has one math class and two programming classes that are kicking his ass, but college and life is not easy.
Not sure how I am going to deal with this. Mom and I are on the same page - if he takes a year off, he does not get a year of sitting on his ass and doing nothing. He will be required to get a job, pay rent and food & beverage if he stays at our house. Also if he does not apply and get approved for a LOA, any future monetary assistance to finish his degree will be zero. Unapproved LOA, equals all his scholarships, etc go bye bye.
Thought Mom and I where doing a good job with the kid, but his fathers influence to take the east road when life gets hard popped up again.
Not much else we can do until he gets home May 15 and a real face to face conversation occurs.
Just needed to vent and RDP is good for getting your thoughts out.
Middle step-son called and said he wants to take a year off from college. He will be finishing his 3rd year in May and due to his degree (Computer Science - emphasis on Video game design), he has 2 years left until graduation.
When ask why - he response was - my classes are too hard and I need a break. Now, I get classes are hard this semester. He has one math class and two programming classes that are kicking his ass, but college and life is not easy.
Not sure how I am going to deal with this. Mom and I are on the same page - if he takes a year off, he does not get a year of sitting on his ass and doing nothing. He will be required to get a job, pay rent and food & beverage if he stays at our house. Also if he does not apply and get approved for a LOA, any future monetary assistance to finish his degree will be zero. Unapproved LOA, equals all his scholarships, etc go bye bye.
Thought Mom and I where doing a good job with the kid, but his fathers influence to take the east road when life gets hard popped up again.
Not much else we can do until he gets home May 15 and a real face to face conversation occurs.
Just needed to vent and RDP is good for getting your thoughts out.