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It appears to me, but I may be wrong, @DILLIGAF has left the building. I know he was part of the Speed car dust-up in the lounge in late April. I haven't done any research, but it appears he has not posted since.

To my point - We (me) make "internet friends". There's people, who's posts I like to read. Dilligaf was one of those. I think its a shame that when a member goes away, for whatever reason, they are seemingly, instantly forgotten.

Tyro (460) is a friend of mine, I value him as a part of my life. When he got banned he commented to me that only a couple people made any effort to stay in contact, sad.

Am I alone in this thought? The people I have things in common with, generally, I have at least some relationship with away from RDP. It may only be a text once in a while, but there is contact of some kind.

I believe Dilligaf was a great asset to this site.

-Cheers.
 

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I don't know DILLIGAF on a personal level. Strictly from here, and I like the RDP guy I started to get to know. That Wheeler guy? Hope he sticks around too.
 

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It appears to me, but I may be wrong, @DILLIGAF has left the building. I know he was part of the Speed car dust-up in the lounge in late April. I haven't done any research, but it appears he has not posted since.

To my point - We (me) make "internet friends". There's people, who's posts I like to read. Dilligaf was one of those. I think its a shame that when a member goes away, for whatever reason, they are seemingly, instantly forgotten.

Tyro (460) is a friend of mine, I value him as a part of my life. When he got banned he commented to me that only a couple people made any effort to stay in contact, sad.

Am I alone in this thought? The people I have things in common with, generally, I have at least some relationship with away from RDP. It may only be a text once in a while, but there is contact of some kind.

I believe Dilligaf was a great asset to this site.

-Cheers.
Agreed and thank you for bringing this up. Anyone who has contact with him please tell him hello and I hope he is doing well. I enjoyed following his travel threads and was looking forward to his next adventure.
 

Wheeler

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Nice work wheeler.
One more for the road.:)

@Wheeler he’s back from vacation! Take this down! Or pm me your number so if you get banned I can still see the pictures you take on the strip!
now that I know what banned camp looks like, I'm all in!

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Agreed and thank you for bringing this up. Anyone who has contact with him please tell him hello and I hope he is doing well. I enjoyed following his travel threads and was looking forward to his next adventure.

Right??? Always enjoyed his posts and adventures. Was just about to meet up with him but his trip to Havasu was diverted and then poof he was gone. ☹️☹️☹️
 

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@nganga it seems like people take things way to seriously.

There’s some people on here that on the computer are lame. But in real life they are cool.
I have seen a lot of members out in the water. Every is not as up tight in real life. Sucks that people get so upset but it is what it is.

@LargeOrangeFont alot of people don’t like stuff he post. but I bet he’s a pretty cool guy in person.

I was one that got taken out when the laptop came out. I don’t know anyone that shares the same insterest as me so this is where I come to spend my free time to try and learn some stuff I would have never known.
 

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@Wheeler he’s back from vacation! Take this down! Or pm me your number so if you get banned I can still see the pictures you take on the strip!
DILLIGAF has my number. send him a not so private message! 😂
 

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It appears to me, but I may be wrong, @DILLIGAF has left the building. I know he was part of the Speed car dust-up in the lounge in late April. I haven't done any research, but it appears he has not posted since.

To my point - We (me) make "internet friends". There's people, who's posts I like to read. Dilligaf was one of those. I think its a shame that when a member goes away, for whatever reason, they are seemingly, instantly forgotten.

Tyro (460) is a friend of mine, I value him as a part of my life. When he got banned he commented to me that only a couple people made any effort to stay in contact, sad.

Am I alone in this thought? The people I have things in common with, generally, I have at least some relationship with away from RDP. It may only be a text once in a while, but there is contact of some kind.

I believe Dilligaf was a great asset to this site.

-Cheers.

You're not alone...

I consider T a friend as well. 👍🏼
 

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@DILLIGAF seems like a person, at his core, rooted in principal and high integrity. He is definitely missed but based on how that whole debacle went down I doubt he’ll be back. I sincerely hope I’m wrong. He was an asset to the forum.
For many years. Especially his travel threads past few years. Cannot remember the location of museum thread last year. Incredible. Hope Roxy doing ok.
 

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So here’s the thing.. I don’t personally care about tit pics.. shit I love em.. as I have said before I spend about as much time on porn hub as I do on Facebook.. lol

That said there’s a reason I can’t have it on rdp.. legal reasons.. peoples kids online reasons, people at work reasons.. what we are Rated as a website reasons..

I can’t have it here because it jeopardizes the community as a whole.. I’m not sure how singleton would feel about rdp getting flagged or blocked at his work or a thousand other guys that work for large corporations and have big IT departments..

You guys make it sound like I don’t want it or I am being some nazi.. I’m not.

It just fucks up the entire website or I’d be all for it.. if I could figure any kinda way around it I would.

I don’t quite understand it though being we aren’t porn hub.. and porn hub is better than is at it

I do like the normal river pic tits etc.. but as we all know with the advent of cell phones that pretty much disappeared…

Rdp ranks high with google and I’d sure hate to fuck some girls teaching career off because of some pic she toon years ago. (You would be surprised).
 
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@nganga it seems like people take things way to seriously.

There’s some people on here that on the computer are lame. But in real life they are cool.
I have seen a lot of members out in the water. Every is not as up tight in real life. Sucks that people get so upset but it is what it is.

@LargeOrangeFont alot of people don’t like stuff he post. but I bet he’s a pretty cool guy in person.

I was one that got taken out when the laptop came out. I don’t know anyone that shares the same insterest as me so this is where I come to spend my free time to try and learn some stuff I would have never known.

I hope @DILLIGAF and everyone else comes back.

To Steve’s point, message boards are fickle. Sharing personal information on a public forum is a personal choice. Not coming back after an infraction is a personal choice. It may be due to pride, pity, boredom, shame or whatever.

If you don’t like what someone posts there are 2 options - hit the ignore button on the site or hit the ignore button in your brain. If you don’t like what they post and still choose to engage with that person you’ve made the choice to converse with someone you claim not to care for. So you need to take responsibility for your own unhappiness when using the boards. It is not the other persons fault you are angry from conversing with them.

These message boards are what you personally make them. I’ve made many great friends from here and it’s a wonderful resource for knowledge or lack there of.

Edit - not directed at you @Riverryder
 
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It appears to me, but I may be wrong, @DILLIGAF has left the building. I know he was part of the Speed car dust-up in the lounge in late April. I haven't done any research, but it appears he has not posted since.

To my point - We (me) make "internet friends". There's people, who's posts I like to read. Dilligaf was one of those. I think its a shame that when a member goes away, for whatever reason, they are seemingly, instantly forgotten.

Tyro (460) is a friend of mine, I value him as a part of my life. When he got banned he commented to me that only a couple people made any effort to stay in contact, sad.

Am I alone in this thought? The people I have things in common with, generally, I have at least some relationship with away from RDP. It may only be a text once in a while, but there is contact of some kind.

I believe Dilligaf was a great asset to this site.

-Cheers.
This scene from Jerry McGuire says it all. Watch till the end.

 

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So here’s the thing.. I don’t personally care about tit pics.. shit I love em.. as I have said before I spend about as much time on porn hub as I do on Facebook.. lol

That said there’s a reason I can’t have it on rdp.. legal reasons.. peoples kids online reasons, people at work reasons.. what we are d
Rated as a website reasons..

I can’t have it here because it jeopardizes the community as a whole.. I’m not sure how singleton would feel about rdp getting flagged or blocked at his work or a thousand other guys that work for large corporations and have big IT departments..

You guys make it sound like I don’t want it or I am being some nazi.. I’m not.

It just fucks up the entire website or I’d be all for it.. if I could figure any kinda way around it I would.

I don’t quite understand it though being we aren’t porn hub.. and porn hub is better than is at it

I do like the normal river pic tits etc.. but as we all know with the advent of cell phones that pretty much disappeared…

Rdp ranks high with google and I’d sure hate to fuck some girls teaching career off because of some pic she toon years ago. (You would be surprised).

I can tell you RDP was blocked at JPL (yes that JPL)😂
 

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On the dilligaf front.. I actually know Tom personally and have met him many times years past. I like him as much as anyone on here..

I will lose this question to anyone on here.. what happens when there is infighting (worse than little kids and for now reason) and ya say knock it off.. then it keeps going.. after the fifth or six knock it the fuck off.. you give an ultimatum and an opportunity to Just delete the petty shit they all posted literally the day or two before..

Some delete it / some don’t.. and some say I’m not deleting shit.

Well the line was drawn.. we all made our choices.. but much like Tom if I say I’m gonna do something I do it. I told them all exactly what it was.

I hope he comes back.. I’m not entirely sure if he’s still banned or not to be honest it was like 8-10 weeks? That said I’m not gonna go against my own lines in the sand..

There was nothing unfair there, there was nothing malicious.. honestly there was no reason for any of it.. same thing with 460 @nganga .. he just kinda went off the rails towards me and this place. Dunno why but I’m not gonna sit there and let a person or persons cause a bunch of shit on here for any reason.

RD
 

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On the dilligaf front.. I actually know Tom personally and have met him many times years past. I like him as much as anyone on here..

I will lose this question to anyone on here.. what happens when there is infighting (worse than little kids and for now reason) and ya say knock it off.. then it keeps going.. after the fifth or six knock it the fuck off.. you give an ultimatum and an opportunity to Just delete the petty shit they all posted literally the day or two before..

Some delete it / some don’t.. and some say I’m not deleting shit.

Well the line was drawn.. we all made our choices.. but much like Tom if I say I’m gonna do something I do it. I told them all exactly what it was.

I hope he comes back.. I’m not entirely sure if he’s still banned or not to be honest it was like 8-10 weeks? That said I’m not gonna go against my own lines in the sand..

There was nothing unfair there, there was nothing malicious.. honestly there was no reason for any of it.. same thing with 460 @nganga .. he just kinda went off the rails towards me and this place. Dunno why but I’m not gonna sit there and let a person or persons cause a bunch of shit on here for any reason.

RD

You drew the line, everyone had time to course correct. If someone is not coming back from that out of spite and is upset that their personal relationship or previous contributions didn’t excuse them from punishment, it is on them.
 

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On the dilligaf front.. I actually know Tom personally and have met him many times years past. I like him as much as anyone on here..

I will lose this question to anyone on here.. what happens when there is infighting (worse than little kids and for now reason) and ya say knock it off.. then it keeps going.. after the fifth or six knock it the fuck off.. you give an ultimatum and an opportunity to Just delete the petty shit they all posted literally the day or two before..

Some delete it / some don’t.. and some say I’m not deleting shit.

Well the line was drawn.. we all made our choices.. but much like Tom if I say I’m gonna do something I do it. I told them all exactly what it was.

I hope he comes back.. I’m not entirely sure if he’s still banned or not to be honest it was like 8-10 weeks? That said I’m not gonna go against my own lines in the sand..

There was nothing unfair there, there was nothing malicious.. honestly there was no reason for any of it.. same thing with 460 @nganga .. he just kinda went off the rails towards me and this place. Dunno why but I’m not gonna sit there and let a person or persons cause a bunch of shit on here for any reason.

RD
I know for me this statement rings a little hollow with the amount of times GRADS was shitting on peoples threads and banned and then let back on.
 

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It is true though.. this place is what ya make of it and how you participate in it..

Take a look at Dan h20toie he shares nothing but good times.. he doesn’t care if he posts fucked up and doesn’t care about the spelling.. people make jokes he doesn’t take it personally.

Ya want to know what? Every heard someone say something bad about Dan or his boat or anything else? I haven’t..

If you aren’t here to have a good time, enjoy some pics share some stories.. you are here for the wrong reasons..

RD
 

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I know for me this statement rings a little hollow with the amount of times GRADS was shitting on peoples threads and banned and then let back on.

Grads was banned for a couple weeks for being a troll and usually when the weeks were up he’d come back.

Interestingly enough ya want to hear something about grads? If he was on one and I texted to you chill the fuck out.. he would for awhile.

I ask other people to Jist chill out or let it go. Well we are talking about one in this thread right now. Lol

I know he’s the lightning rod for rdp because of his behavior and political Views.. but he’s not some horrible person (politics aside).. he has always helped me when I have asked him, and he has contributed to the site over the years some positive content. It just outweighed by the same negative troll shit.
 

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It is true though.. this place is what ya make of it and how you participate in it..

Take a look at Dan h20toie he shares nothing but good times.. he doesn’t care if he posts fucked up and doesn’t care about the spelling.. people make jokes he doesn’t take it personally.

Ya want to know what? Every heard someone say something bad about Dan or his boat or anything else? I haven’t..

If you aren’t here to have a good time, enjoy some pics share some stories.. you are here for the wrong reasons..

RD

Dan drowns those people in alcohol so they can’t speak.
 

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I know for me this statement rings a little hollow with the amount of times GRADS was shitting on peoples threads and banned and then let back on.
Why would you let a known troll take up headspace?

Enjoyed seeing him drive all you guys so crazy. To let an Internet forum user effect you is beyond me.
 

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More than that I’d guess.. but I still talk to him on the phone and text.. and have nice conversations.

How’s that possible I wonder
Is he okay? I remember last time he was on he was going thru it with his health?
Or was his wife sick?
 

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Why would you let a known troll take up headspace?

Enjoyed seeing him drive all you guys so crazy. To let an Internet forum user effect you is beyond me.
Never said he did, just pointing out that this statement doesn't seem to be applied evenly.
"Dunno why but I’m not gonna sit there and let a person or persons cause a bunch of shit on here for any reason."

RD
 

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More than that I’d guess.. but I still talk to him on the phone and text.. and have nice conversations.

How’s that possible I wonder

Probably because you are more willing to overlook or ignore things you don’t like?
 

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So here’s the thing.. I don’t personally care about tit pics.. shit I love em.. as I have said before I spend about as much time on porn hub as I do on Facebook.. lol

That said there’s a reason I can’t have it on rdp.. legal reasons.. peoples kids online reasons, people at work reasons.. what we are Rated as a website reasons..

I can’t have it here because it jeopardizes the community as a whole.. I’m not sure how singleton would feel about rdp getting flagged or blocked at his work or a thousand other guys that work for large corporations and have big IT departments..

You guys make it sound like I don’t want it or I am being some nazi.. I’m not.

It just fucks up the entire website or I’d be all for it.. if I could figure any kinda way around it I would.

I don’t quite understand it though being we aren’t porn hub.. and porn hub is better than is at it

I do like the normal river pic tits etc.. but as we all know with the advent of cell phones that pretty much disappeared…

Rdp ranks high with google and I’d sure hate to fuck some girls teaching career off because of some pic she toon years ago. (You would be surprised).

First, I never use a work asset when playing on the internet. That just opens you up for work issues. Personal iPhone or iPad only when wasting time online :)

On that front, at a past company were I was also responsible for website traffic, we blocked all news, sports, social media sites from being viewed on company asset (computers, phone, pads, etc). The one category we did not block was porn. We tracked that and usually fired folks for breaking the company policy on asset usage. Still remember the idiot that had pornhub open on his computer as I asked him to share his screen so we could review an audit issue he was editing. Had 2 of my staff on the call with me. We were shocked at how stupid his guy was. I ended up firing that person within 12 hours.
 

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First, I never use a work asset when playing on the internet. That just opens you up for work issues. Personal iPhone or iPad only when wasting time online :)

On that front, at a past company were I was also responsible for website traffic, we blocked all news, sports, social media sites from being viewed on company asset (computers, phone, pads, etc). The one category we did not block was porn. We tracked that and usually fired folks for breaking the company policy on asset usage. Still remember the idiot that had pornhub open on his computer as I asked him to share his screen so we could review an audit issue he was editing. Had 2 of my staff on the call with me. We were shocked at how stupid his guy was. I ended up firing that person within 12 hours.


There’s different rules for everyone in the corporate world. If you produce a very profitable portfolio I don’t care how much porn is on your phone or desktop you aren’t going anywhere. For those you’re looking to move on from and whom underperform it’s not difficult to find a reason to separate employment.

You can manage folks into a career and just as easily manage them out of one.
 

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There’s different rules for everyone in the corporate world. If you produce a very profitable portfolio I don’t care how much porn is on your phone or desktop you aren’t going anywhere. For those you’re looking to move on from and whom underperform it’s not difficult to find a reason to separate employment.

You can manage folks into a career and just as easily manage them out of one.

I have been at some large companies, no difference from the janitor to the C suite when it comes to corp policy violations. Before my current gig, I was leading Audit & Compliance organizations and was on the executive review committee for corporate policy violations. At each company, employee name and title was removed when we were reviewing case files, so decisions could be made without influence. After a decision was made, we would be notified of the title and name. Glad to say in all cases our decisions never changed when we finally put a name to a file.

FYI - Porn today is considered more of a workplace harassment issue, which gets viewed differently then 5-8 years ago. Most companies don’t care how much revenue you bring into the company, get caught you are most likely done.
 
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