Flying_Lavey
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I gave myself a little RDP vacation a few weeks ago because I felt like I was starting to take out my anger and frustrations on here more than I ever had before, and I wasn't happy with it. We have been having a LOT going on since the beginning of the year. Tough transitions as work with management changes, oldest kids cheer, but more impactful has been the repeated health issues of my 2 youngest and my wife. Which has been adding to the strain at work obviously.
I came back and am sharing this because, I don't know what to do. My parents are out of town and because of that, I am extremely limited on who i can ask to help watch the kids when one of the kids or the wife has to go to the hospital. And because it has been happening so much lately, it's beginning to compromise my job (work hasn't been a great situation anyways, but this would compromise any other position I could change to as well).
We don't have any money to pay for child care, and the 2 youngest having feeding tubes so most child care providers won't take them anyways. We don't have any other family around that would consistently be able to help.
I'm just looking for advice for this. The wealth of knowledge and experience here is second to none so, what better place to ask? Does anybody know of any programs or groups that help with this sort of thing in the Simi area?
I came back and am sharing this because, I don't know what to do. My parents are out of town and because of that, I am extremely limited on who i can ask to help watch the kids when one of the kids or the wife has to go to the hospital. And because it has been happening so much lately, it's beginning to compromise my job (work hasn't been a great situation anyways, but this would compromise any other position I could change to as well).
We don't have any money to pay for child care, and the 2 youngest having feeding tubes so most child care providers won't take them anyways. We don't have any other family around that would consistently be able to help.
I'm just looking for advice for this. The wealth of knowledge and experience here is second to none so, what better place to ask? Does anybody know of any programs or groups that help with this sort of thing in the Simi area?