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RiverDave

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This guy used to be the guy in the parking lot when I dropped my kids off at their school. If you went to any function he would be the guy playing the guitar or whatever music.. He was real well known in the Christian community of Calvery..

The very first time I met him I was picking my kids up with Stacy and I looked at her and said

“There’s something really f’ing wrong with that guy.”

She said I was being an asshole..

I never said anything but me and this guy were always kinda stand off’ish.. because like I said there’s something wrong with this guy.

The day he got arrested I said “Told ya.”

A few people believed he was innocent.. some didn’t.

This was the result. 24 years shitbag!

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i doubt if calvary does fbi background checks like government schools, and don't know if would have helped, sad to see it was calvary. what a scumbag.
 

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Dave, honest question, if you really thought something was up with this guy, why would you continue to let your kids go there? I mean I know your wife thought you were being an asshole, but if I got that feeling about someone, I probably wouldn't bring it up to his employer, but I would most definitely not continue to send my kids there.
 

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My wife and I went to the same private catholic middle school in so cal. 2 teachers for sure were pedos


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statistically speaking there are some on here. Not the same statistically as weed smokers, but you get the idea. o_O
 
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true story,,,I worked in 2 prisons next to each other, Lompoc and 'lows'. The Pedos were keep at Lows since they would be killed in the other. Lows was less secure and less 'violent' and 100% more unsettling to work in. The inmates there sat alone and just had a creepy look.
 

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People are fucking sick...

I can't even take my stepdaughter clothes out of the dryer.
 

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I told my wife years ago when I met one of her friends husbands he was a wife beater, 2 years later he was in jail for spousal abuse... Sometimes we just know..
 

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When raising our kids we had a nice parent to child talk letting them know that there are bad people out there. We let them know that if anyone touches you inappropriately you need to let us know immediately. Don't ever feel threatened by anyone, were always here to talk with you and protect you...

What does a pedo look like? In many cases they look ordinary and they can be found just about anywhere.

The best thing to do is have this talk with your kids early on...
 

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There is the new teacher at my daughters Catholic school that gives me those same vibes. All the kids love him, he always seems to involve himself with girls especially. He gives them all these "cutesy" nicknames. I don't know, I just dont like this dude.

Ive already called him out about missing grades for my daughter and he sounds like a pussy on the phone.. Same profile, single, mid 30's, nerdy, sweaty looking soft guy. I got my eye on this clown for sure.
 

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My wife jumps my ass frequently, accusing me of being to hard or critical of peeps. Wife thinks most everyone has honest intentions, not me. Been in the “business“ of watching peeps to long. Stay alert & be careful who you intrust to be around your most valuable prized possession……your kids.
 

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Same deal happened to us 20 years ago. Pastor of the Lutheran Church we attended in Del Mar, CA. My wife observed the same thing you did, "there's something off with the pastor, he doesn't make eye contact." We moved away and sure enough, got news the pastor was arrested. Our kids were 3 and 5 at the time. My wife is Catholic and after everything that happened in the Catholic Church and now this in the Lutheran Church, we just quit going to church. Very disillusioned.
 

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Dave, honest question, if you really thought something was up with this guy, why would you continue to let your kids go there? I mean I know your wife thought you were being an asshole, but if I got that feeling about someone, I probably wouldn't bring it up to his employer, but I would most definitely not continue to send my kids there.

It’s a school.. kids are in class all day and then get picked up. Zero chance my kids would be going to any kinda camp or outing with this guy unless I was present.
 

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i doubt if calvary does fbi background checks like government schools, and don't know if would have helped, sad to see it was calvary. what a scumbag.
The Catholic school my daughter goes to even for parents to be volunteering we have to do full FBI livescan and background. I'm sure its same at Calvary. But like RD mentioned, these predators lurk for decades this process doesnt always expose them, only repeat offenders.
 

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So many times these kinda people work in arenas not appropriate for the illness they process. I often wonder if it's planned or if the situation perpetuates because of convenience.
Sad deal but glad they found this guy before things became worse, unless there's more to this story justifying a 24 year sentence.
Curious as to who, how, why they became interested in investigating him? Someone else with RD's intuition make a "call out"?
 

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It’s a school.. kids are in class all day and then get picked up. Zero chance my kids would be going to any kinda camp or outing with this guy unless I was present.
What about the other kids?
Did you ever share your feelings about this guy with any other parents?
 

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Sad, and here the legislatures in Cali have cleared the path for many of them to contest the fact they need to register as sex offender for their lifetime :mad:
 

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My wife jumps my ass frequently, accusing me of being to hard or critical of peeps. Wife thinks most everyone has honest intentions, not me. Been in the “business“ of watching peeps to long. Stay alert & be careful who you intrust to be around your most valuable prized possession……your kids.
I get the same shit from mine sir. I have to remind myself that there is some goode in this world, but I have seen too much evil in my life.
 

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I had an elementary school teacher who creeped me out. Male, late 20’s, too involved in all the kids business. I had a tough year. I didn’t like him, didn’t want to be around him, didn’t want to be in the class and repeatedly acted out. Eventually I was moved into another class.

A few year later, my little brother is in his class. The school held an overnight field trip to the beach. I volunteered to go as a chaperone (which in retrospect, why would they let another child, me 14 or 15 go?).

Anyway, I went, shared a tent with my brother with and didn’t let him out of my sight.

A few years later the teacher is arrested and convicted of child molestation. After a civil suit, School District made a big payout, and in the dark humor we share, we’ve continually pestered my brother “Are you $ure he didn’t touch you?!”
 

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Dave, you'd be BLOWN AWAY at how much molestation, child sex crimes, child porn cases, etc. there is out there. It's insane and the Police only catch a handful of it. It's non stop and inundates agencies. I'd say there's actually more of this type of crime out there than regular crime. Mind boggling.
 

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Whats even crazier is some dumbasses in legislation that have empathy for some of these turds and think they rights too.....and wanna "rehabilitate" them. 😂🙄 Both muther fuckers are sick and should be shot. 😂😂
 

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Its amazing there is always a group of people that refuse to accept the guilty verdict for these people….. oh he was a nice man.

The one place I wouldn’t put my money or my kids is a business with religion in the name.
 

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Let this sink in… 60,000. Holy hell

My kids never did scouts so i never worried. Creepy old dudes that stuck around coaching little league / pop Warner , when there was no money in it and they had no kids in the league were weird.

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Really sick and gives a bad name to a Church but a lot of Churches are to blame.

They are out there and a they prey on Churches, youth sports , scouting etc. A good church will do a series of background checks and interviews before they let people in leadership or areas of dealing with kids. I have done some class teaching and working with youth and adults at our church and it was easier to get my CCW in So cal. Live Scan, in person interviews, spousal interviews etc. Even with all that adults are never allowed to be alone with a child. Also adults are not allowed to alone with the opposite sex.

This is called being wise, Security in churches is HUGE issue that can not be ignored.

Churches are places to heal broken souls. It would very naive to think that there are not messed up people inside, that is the point.
 
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In 3rd grade I had a math teacher that everyone loved because he would walk around the class and give the kids, mostly the girls, shoulder massages. I was always creeped out by him, even at that young age when I didn't know how sick some people could be. Halfway through the year he was replaced with a substitute. Then, the news came out that he had been arrested for child porn.
 

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Luckily I avoided that shit being both an altar boy and a cub scout. The worst thing that happened to me in cub scouts was going to the pine wood derby. My dad was putting on his sweater and his arm came down, hit the car in my hand and smashed to pieces. Needless to say no ribbon for me. :p
 

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Most crooked people are church goers.

I have a prime example 2 doors down from me.

I know people from of all walks of life that are crooked, does that count ?

Christian, Muslim, Atheist , Mormon , Jew ....People are people
 

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I know people from of all walks of life that are crooked, does that count ?

Christian, Muslim, Atheist , Mormon , Jew ....People are people


This is the real truth......

The ones that try to blame a religion or a race, or the color of skin bother me.......
 

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Here is the link to registered sex offenders along with their risk level for LHC. Yes….they are literally everywhere.
 

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I didn’t count but Kingman looks worse! 77 kingman. Didn’t see total for Havasu.
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I know people from of all walks of life that are crooked, does that count ?

Christian, Muslim, Atheist , Mormon , Jew ....People are people

i don’t think you get what I’m saying.
Yes all people can be crooked. But the ones that are over the top about religion usually have the most to hide.

Old lady down the street hired a yard guy. Guy moves in and they got married. I googled the guy. Turns out he got busted for shoving foreign objects up a boys ass. The old lady finds out about it from her hair dresser. Shortly after he starts a church out of the house.
Old lady died a few months ago. Dude already has another lady living with him.

real fucking church like.
 

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This was my 7th grade teacher and asb advisor. I was asb President so I spent a shit load of time with him. So did all the cheerleaders. I always had a feeling but couldn’t ever prove it. Will years after I got kicked out of that school this happened


He drew this picture for me and oddly enough it’s still hanging in my old room at my parents. I took this the other day when I noticed it because I thought it was funny and kind of creepy. look at the shirt
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The world is full of sick folks and it's disgusting to know my children were in the presence of this one on a daily basis. But I don't blame Calvary. They are a wonderful school and one of our only options besides public school in Havasu. I only wish we could put the ones that perform the physical acts away for nearly as long.
 

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…Mr Derfler…my fifth grade teacher for a while had been quite a source of entertainment …we used to watch him pull up in his 56 Chevy’s for a day of teaching… he was a master of bouncing the car off the curb…
…Never thought about it at the time but he would arrange the kids seating not in rows… but sort of in a half circle with all the young girls upfront…
…Can’t remember how many years later but my mother found an article in the Los Angeles Times about him being arrested at Sunland Park for being a pedophile …can’t remember exactly what the detalis were…His seating arrangement started making sense then…
 

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i don’t think you get what I’m saying.
Yes all people can be crooked. But the ones that are over the top about religion usually have the most to hide.

Old lady down the street hired a yard guy. Guy moves in and they got married. I googled the guy. Turns out he got busted for shoving foreign objects up a boys ass. The old lady finds out about it from her hair dresser. Shortly after he starts a church out of the house.
Old lady died a few months ago. Dude already has another lady living with him.

real fucking church like.

Yeah that sounds like some twisted folks. " Church out of the house " sounds like a weird bunch and not really legal.

I agree with you about the "over the top " and hyper judgemental people being the ones with the biggest skeletons.

Those are not " Most people" in churches but sadly they are ones that get remembered.
 

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Why we ever let child molester out of jail is beyond me. Lock them up forever or shoot, but never let them back into society.

My wife worked a lot of child porn cases doing computer forensics. With they stuff she has seen, she doesn't know why we don't have the death penalty for these type of people.
 
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