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...My Dad passed away. My sister and I were holding him as he took his last breath.

Dad's health has been deteriorating rapidly over the last few months. He was down to 140 lbs, from a lifetime of 220 lbs. His memory and cognitive functions left him, and while he remembered many things in his past, the present day facilities were gone.

This man, through his genius and hard work, built a business that at one time employed over 125 sheet metal journeymen, and built projects all over the US, from a 25 story office building in Portland, OR, to huge research facilities at The Ohio State University and the Batelle Institute in Columbus, OH. There was also a 1.2 million SF Kodak film processing facility in Greeley, CO.

The industrial side of the business was impressive as well. The US government work included missile silos, laboratories at Los Alamos, and facilities at Sandia Base in Albuquerque. Beginning in 1945, Sandia Base was the sole source for the construction of atomic and thermonuclear bomb delivery systems. They constructed everything but the warheads. Dad was responsible for the design and construction of the huge ductwork at Four Corners Navajo Generation Facility, a multiple gigawatt coal fired power plant.

But his greatest legacy was what I learned from him. I began working in the shop when I was eleven years old. Over the next few decades, together we built projects that were incredibly complex and demanding. I learned and mastered a universe of skills that spanned many disciplines. This allowed me to continue learning every day, and culminated in my ownership of a technology centered general contracting firm. The data centers I built, the projects for the Navy, large financial firms, hospitals, and well known nationwide concerns, had my Dad's imprint on every one of them. I would not have succeeded to the extent I did without his incredible genius and work ethic.

I'm sharing this with my RDP family because I want you all to know of the support and guidance I have received from my Dad over the 67 years of my life. I could not have done it without him.

This is a load of ductwork headed to the Los Alamos National Laboratory in 1962. It was for a new contaminated nuclear waste processing facility. That's my Dad's foreman Bill Casey, he had just parked the truck next to an entrance of the facility, and was preparing to unload it. When I turned fifteen, I was driving this rig to jobsites all over New Mexico, an example of my Dad's teaching and confidence in my abilities. Later years had large 48' "birdcage" trailers my Dad engineered and had built in the shop to haul ductwork and equipment across the country. They were pulled by International CO4070 tractors.

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Sorry for your loss !

Dad sounded like an Amazing Man - Willing to teach if someone wanted to learn ….
 

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Sorry for your loss. Sounds like he lived an incredible life. It’s one thing to end up with a bunch of stuff. The respect and love of your family is everything.
 

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I lost Pops 18 years ago. Not a day goes by I don't think of him. The loss is something that's really hard to fully understand, even now.

I hope your family can find peace with the loss. It sounds as if he were a strong and intelligent man. My guess is he didn't like what was happening, and it was time for him to move on.

Rest In Peace 😢
 

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So very sorry for your loss. Prayers for you & your family during this difficult time.
 

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Sorry to hear of your loss. Right there with you with the passing with all of my grandparents, father, stepfather. Sadly my MIL passed in the Covid BS. Best to you and your families at this difficult time.
 

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My condolences to you and your family rrrr, It sounds like you had a great life experience with your Dad!
 

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rrrr, If your Dad were to read this thread he would know for sure you wrote it and wrote from your Heart. Should be no doubt he proud of you.
I might have missed it,what Dads age?
 

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I've been thinking about some details of the education I received from Dad, and one memory came to light that captures his desire to teach me the business. This was in the mid 60s, before the company grew to the point that he hired estimators and draftsmen. I hope you'll excuse the length of this post, but it is helping me grieve.

A typical large laboratory facility had a complex air handling and duct distribution system. From large air handling units the size of a one or two car garage, two separate medium pressure (6+ inches of static pressure) systems using round or oval spiral duct were connected. One provided heated air, the other cold air. The AHUs had hot and chilled water coils tempering the air.

These two systems traveled throughout the building. They reduced to smaller round HP ducts feeding mixing boxes that had temperature controls and reduced the static pressure to .5-1.5". The outlet of the mixing boxes were connected to low pressure rectangular ductwork, and that distributed the tempered LP air into labs and offices through ceiling outlets. The offices had return air ductwork routed back to the AHUs, and the labs had either ceiling mounted duct or fume hoods connected to a welded exhaust duct system (for corrosion resistance) and large exhaust fans. There was also a fresh makeup air ductwork feeding the AHUs.

That's six different duct systems. The bid package blueprints showed the ductwork schematically routed through the building, but didn't consider all architectural features, mechanical piping, plumbing, electrical conduits and equipment, fire sprinklers, and other trades work sharing the space. Dad did all of the bid estimating, and he had to consider these impediments that would affect labor hours.

Here's where I came in. After my homework was done, beginning when I was nine or ten, Dad handed me a set of bid blueprints and a fistful of colored pencils. He showed me the different duct systems, and I lightly shaded each one with a different color so they were easier to take off. It sounds improbable, but I had that responsibility. As months and years passed, I learned more and more details of how everything interacted. I also did this work for office buildings and schools, but they had fewer systems and were much simpler to understand.

When Dad's bid was successful, he had another responsibility to perform. The ductwork had to consider all of the other trades' work and routing I mentioned above. Dad ran the business during working hours, and spent almost every night of the week working late to make accurate scale drawings for construction of the various ductwork systems in the shop. His drafting table consisted of a used 3⁰9⁰ solid core door covered with a ⅛" solid cushioned one side adhesive plastic cover, a parallel straightedge, and plastic drafting triangles.

They had to be right. If the drawings were wrong, ductwork sent to the job site had to be field modified or scrapped. That would not only double the shop and field labor, the cost of the scrapped metal, trucking, and the delays to the project schedule had serious ramifications. Rebuilding material that had to be shipped halfway across the US could easily make the job lose hundreds of thousands of dollars.

Dad was a giant of a man.
 
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So sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.
 

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A life well lived. My family's condolences to yours Ron. On these threads for other people you always wish to them that the memories they are left with help to take the sting out of the loss. Considering what you wrote about your dad it appears that you will walk-the-walk, and I'm glad you have those memories to rely on.

God speed your father.
 

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Sorry to read this however after reading your posts I can picture what a fantastic man he is. He accomplished some major feats that's for sure.

Not all Dad's take the time to teach what they know to their Kids. A noble man for sure.

When you get chills down the back of your neck don't forget to say hello.
 

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Very sorry for your loss. RIP Sir.
 

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Thanks for the write up.

My dad was a Sheet Metal Worker. I grew up in Sheet Metal Shops around Kansas City. Our close family friend was the President of Local 2 in Kansas City.
When I was 10 years old I would get delivered to Barns and Dodge Sheet Metal in Kansas City every Saturday morning and locked inside the building. My job was to clean the shop and clean the office.

Great write up!

Sorry for your loss but thanks for sharing. Brings back some great memories. My dad died at age 47 and we got his 25 year pin from the local.

Great photo also!
 

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Condolences rrrr, may your dad rest in peace. It's never easy, but I think the legacy of your father made this day slightly less painful if that's possible.
 

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May your Pop rest in peace. Sounds like he had a very fulfilling life and the best part was you got to be a part of it.
 

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So very sorry for the loss of your Dad, it was one of the hardest things have had to go through, Wife and I and I lost our Dads just 3 months apart from each other a few years ago. Prayers for your Dad and your Family.
 

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very sorry to hear this - may he rest in peace. Lost my Day two years ago - think about him every day. this thread got me thinking about all of the things my Dad taught me and how I get to use those skills every day.
 

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An amazing story. I think men who run their own businesses are worth so much. The stress, the difficulties, the rewards, and punishments mean a whole lot more when everything you have is on the line. Much respect.
 

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Very sorry for your loss. Is sounds like he died peacefully being held by the family he loved and raised. We should all be so lucky. Be thankful for all these years you were able to spend with him.
God bless.
 

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Godspeed to your Dad. Rip
Didn't know your Dad, but reading your post he was a true legend.
 

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Sorry for the loss of your dad. Reading your post about your dad, hard working dad and a hero to you. May he rest in peace.
 

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Sorry for your loss. He seemed like a great man.
 

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So Sorry. :( RIP and Prayers for you and the family. Lost my dad a few years back. I cherish the memories.
 

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Sorry for your loss. May your memories of him fill your heart.
 

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I'm sorry for your loss.
Wishing you and your family strength and peace.
 

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Ron sorry for your loss.
Ironically I drove by your father's old business location yesterday.
I thought of you&the great times at Eldorado.
Was wondering how his health was per our p.m.'s.
He's in a better place.
Prayers for your family.
 

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Well written posts that honor your Dad for his care and accomplishments throughout a long life. RIP
 

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What a wonderful long life he had! May he rest in peace...
 

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Ron sorry for your loss.
Ironically I drove by your father's old business location yesterday.
I thought of you&the great times at Eldorado.
Was wondering how his health was per our p.m.'s.
He's in a better place.
Prayers for your family.
Thanks, Mike. When we arrived Saturday night, it was obvious he was nearing the end. I'm not sure he knew we were there, but it was comforting for Fonda and me to be there. It was a blessing he passed at home instead of the hospital, in the same bed where my Mom left us in 2011.

So the life cycle for Dad has ended. He was a great man, with a large heart that loved his family and Jesus.
 

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I just read of your loss. Your father was an amazing man. Sandia - not sure how many here understand just how important they were/are. Your dad’s accomplishments were amazing. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
 
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