boatpi
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Makes me wonder if they were young people. Not that it matters terrible regardless.Sad deal. They say car veered off the road wonder if the person driving fell asleep.
oh man, that's horrible. The poor wife/mother, unimaginable pain there for gawd knows how long?In the comments someone said it was a father and three sons. Fell asleep.
I think it used to be, but he's on Rice Rd now I think. Sadly, he may not be on this one, but on others both past and probably future. Regardless, I feel for all parties involved, from the family to the witnesses and responders. Horrible scene, I'm sure.oh man, that's horrible. The poor wife/mother, unimaginable pain there for gawd knows how long?
Is that FBW'S beat? I hope he's ok if he had to roll that scene or notify the widow. Horrendous situation.
oh man, that's horrible. The poor wife/mother, unimaginable pain there for gawd knows how long?
Is that FBW'S beat? I hope he's ok if he had to roll that scene or notify the widow. Horrendous situation.
I think it used to be, but he's on Rice Rd now I think. Luckily, he may not be on this one, but on others both past and probably future. Regardless, I feel for all parties involved, from the family to the witnesses and responders. Horrible scene, I'm sure.
That’s so sad.In the comments someone said it was a father and three sons. Fell asleep.
I'm not a first responder type, but unfortunately been first on scene more than I care to count. Some things don't fade, images, scents and feelings as vivid as a moment back, yet years have past.I fixed it for ya, "luckily @FlyByWire may not be on this one". "Luckily" is how I feel about not being on these type of incidents lately. They never leave your head, we call it the slide show.
This one brings me back to one very similar about 14/15 years ago on the 40 when a dad and 2 of his 3 sons were with him when he died onscene with me trying to assist just after the helicopter landed for him. I offered help to the chp officer who was alone and had nobody to help him. One of the sons was DOA, the other with minor injuries. I remember the 3rd brother stayed home. Its a picture and a story I can not ever forget, one of hundreds if not thousands in my head. So when I say "luckily", its just one less that stacks my slide show and its one that does't re-appear later.
RIP, thoughts and prayers for those grieving.
I fixed it for ya, "luckily @FlyByWire may not be on this one". "Luckily" is how I feel about not being on these type of incidents lately. They never leave your head, we call it the slide show.
This one brings me back to one very similar about 14/15 years ago on the 40 when a dad and 2 of his 3 sons were with him when he died onscene with me trying to assist just after the helicopter landed for him. I offered help to the chp officer who was alone and had nobody to help him. One of the sons was DOA, the other with minor injuries. I remember the 3rd brother stayed home. Its a picture and a story I can not ever forget, one of hundreds if not thousands in my head. So when I say "luckily", its just one less that stacks my slide show and its one that does't re-appear later.
RIP, thoughts and prayers for those grieving.
I know this sounds horrible but you need to learn how to joke about it. In the coast guard picking up a body that the crabs had been enjoying for a week and that we had a hard time keeping in the litter was not easy at 18 but thats how we handled it because we were going to have to do it again another day not to far out
I can only imagine how difficult that would be having to deal with that much human death and destruction on a regular basis. I don't know how you guys do it but I/we thank every last one of you for your strength and courage to continue to deal with that horrible human reality on a regular basis. I hope you all can find a healthy and effective way to manage that process.I fixed it for ya, "luckily @FlyByWire may not be on this one". "Luckily" is how I feel about not being on these type of incidents lately. They never leave your head, we call it the slide show.
This one brings me back to one very similar about 14/15 years ago on the 40 when a dad and 2 of his 3 sons were with him when he died onscene with me trying to assist just after the helicopter landed for him. I offered help to the chp officer who was alone and had nobody to help him. One of the sons was DOA, the other with minor injuries. I remember the 3rd brother stayed home. Its a picture and a story I can not ever forget, one of hundreds if not thousands in my head. So when I say "luckily", its just one less that stacks my slide show and its one that does't re-appear later.
RIP, thoughts and prayers for those grieving.
In the 80's I worked for a pomona ca. fireman in his side hustle const. Gig. He didn't talk too much about the f.d. job. One day we were on a job and he just matter of factly says " we went on a call this morning and this guy was just hanging around." I thought he was saying some guy was standing about where they were on a call and didn't grasp the significance of his statement. I replied I don't understand the significance of that..whatcha talkin bout? He was "joking" about the fact the guy hung himself. I kinda missed the humor in it. Continually having to see such a horrible side of humanity can really take a toll I imagine.I know this sounds horrible but you need to learn how to joke about it. In the coast guard picking up a body that the crabs had been enjoying for a week and that we had a hard time keeping in the litter was not easy at 18 but thats how we handled it because we were going to have to do it again another day not to far out
In the 80's I worked for a pomona ca. fireman in his side hustle const. Gig. He didn't talk too much about the f.d. job. One day we were on a job and he just matter of factly says " we went on a call this morning and this guy was just hanging around." I thought he was saying some guy was standing about where they were on a call and didn't grasp the significance of his statement. I replied I don't understand the significance of that..whatcha talkin bout? He was "joking" about the fact the guy hung himself. I kinda missed the humor in it. Continually having to see such a horrible side of humanity can really take a toll I imagine.it takes a special kinda person to fill that roll and return to it on a daily basis. God bless those that do.
I had a buddy that worked for a smaller local PD where I grew up. Responded to a suicide by hanging of a guy that hadn't been heard from in a couple days. He and a couple other officers were documenting some things in the garage where the gentleman hung himself. Buddy looks over and sees a couple fishing poles. Walks over, grabs one, walks back and stands next to the body.. and gives a giant thumbs up like he’d just caught the biggest fish in all the land.
…just as the spouse was walking into the garage.
Fired.
Stuff like this is why I know I'm kind of broken. I want to laugh, but think I shouldn't, then think "the lighting would have been way off in a garage for that...but in a tree..."I had a buddy that worked for a smaller local PD where I grew up. Responded to a suicide by hanging of a guy that hadn't been heard from in a couple days. He and a couple other officers were documenting some things in the garage where the gentleman hung himself. Buddy looks over and sees a couple fishing poles. Walks over, grabs one, walks back and stands next to the body.. and gives a giant thumbs up like he’d just caught the biggest fish in all the land.
…just as the spouse was walking into the garage.
Fired.
Really thinking proper communication is a factor here...wouldn't even want to write the reports on the followup on that one.Ok coast guard story not my crew pick up a dead guy decided on the way back to the CG dock to put him in the coxins seat and make it look like he was driving the boat put a cigarette in his mouth and here they come into the dock family was there waiting they didn't know
HP - Hispanic panicAs an ex-medic I've seen my fair share too. Laughter is definitely a coping mechanism but we never resorted to things like mentioned above. As fly by wire noted, when you're on scene, you're working. The laughter and the jokes came later back at the station. Some of the things we did however made it to our report writing and made up acronyms that only meant something to those that know.
F u b a r - fucked up beyond all recognition
DFO - done fell out (ejection)
UAB - ugly ass bitch
H p o a - hot piece of ass
FSB ‐ fat sum bitch
Those are just a few that were in the rotation
ThisOh we all most certainly do. My coping mechanism is humor, no doubt. Just need to make sure it’s with the right audience because we do have hearts.
Most of us, anyway.
Seen dead bodies since I can remember dad is an anatomy professor. Pre embalming and post, pre and post dissection, freezers full of parts you name it.
Dad thought this was funny when I was about 12.
Dad “want some ice cream?”
Me “heck yeah”
Dad “it’s over there in the freezer help yourself”
Me “yikes”!!
Wasn’t ice cream.
No joke on the smell! I had more info to share but I’ll save that for another thread.Gross!
Right out of the academy I had a training officer take me out for a “welcome aboard” lunch.. whatever I wanted, his treat.
Next stop, the LA County Coroners Office.
Anybody that’s ever been there can smell this sentence.
Fucking Home Depot of just, dead humans.
I “got” to watch an autopsy.. and I swear on my children, never fucking again.
Was this at the old County General?Gross!
Right out of the academy I had a training officer take me out for a “welcome aboard” lunch.. whatever I wanted, his treat.
Next stop, the LA County Coroners Office.
Anybody that’s ever been there can smell this sentence.
Fucking Home Depot of just, dead humans.
I “got” to watch an autopsy.. and I swear on my children, never fucking again.